A letter to my younger self taking the role as a first-time leader

What advice do you wish you had when you pursued your first leadership role?

Steffan, you will now go from the guy making recommendations to the guy making decisions. You go from being an individual contributor to delivering through others. You now lead a team of people doing what you used to be good at, that got you promoted in the first place.

That's a big change. How to make good decisions, facilitate a meeting, craft a strategy or delegate work is not something that everyone naturally just know how to do. If you think they are natural abilities, then you might feel there's something wrong with you if you don't have them. Please don't. It's a skill you can learn. You will do mistakes, but over time you will nail it. Leadership is an education.

People is your work now. Invest time in them, be present, be available. Listen. Ask how you can help all the time. Then comes communication, communication, communication, setting budgets, performance reviews, 1:1 meetings, meetings with stakeholders, recruitment, setting goals, prioritize, help finding solutions on complex problems, solving conflicts.

Don't forget to take care of yourself. What gives you energy? What drains you for energy? What do you need to do yourself, and what can you delegate to others? Do one thing at a time. Use your team. Create a support system around you, and use it. Block time in your calendar to think and reflect.

Never create a bunch of tasks that you assign to your team for execution. Provide context, intent. Let your brilliant team and problem solvers define and own their tasks and actions. A good plan developed and understood by the team is better than a "brilliant" plan by you.

Don't stress if you don't have a vision on the first day. You are not Steve Jobs. Visions can be found. Find it together with your team and let it be the compass in everything you do. What would you like to achieve together? What's the future we are trying to create? How do we plan to accomplish that? Let it become theirs, not only yours.

Watch out for compromises in this process. If you try to come up with something that pleases everyone, you end up pleasing no one.

Steffan, you are not a super human and don't pretend to be one. You have your strengths, but also your weaknesses and gaps. Your job is to build a team and surround yourself with people closing those gaps. Your job is not to know everything.

There will be periods where you doubt yourself and question everything, but suddenly you will see someone on your team achieve more than they thought they were capable of.

You will see your team come together to solve impossible problems. You will see a team that would do anything to help each other out. Impact. That's the joy of leadership. That's your reward. That's the reason why you became a leader.

Good luck my friend!

Best Regards,

Steffan Sørenes, a year older and (somewhat) wiser

Decision making in diverse groups and teams

A potential minefield. 

The high energy from ideation and brainstorming quickly turns into frustration when it's time to make a decision.

We don't fully control the outcomes from a decision, but what we have some control over and what we can improve is the quality of our decision process.

A challenge is that we often want to accomplish two things at the same time. 

We don't want to waste too much time, and we don't want to sacrifice too much accuracy. The key to balancing this trade-off is figuring out the penalty for not getting the decision exactly right. What's the worst case that can happen?

So you have a list of ideas coming from your team, but which of them shall we pursue? There will always be one that is accountable for the final call, but there are many ways to accomplish it.

Shall we do an individual ranking where each idea must pass relevant thresholds, or shall we rank them relative to each other? What are the selection criteria to assess? What's your current constraints and non-negotiables?

Shall you do it democratically through voting? Voting is time effective and consistent. Will everyone feel a part of the decision through voting? Do you get rid of groupthink? In a voting there will be limited information and knowledge flow between the team members. Do we want that?

Or shall we just appoint a leader that makes the decision? That's probably effective, but the quality of the decision depends heavily on the leader's style and knowledge.

Will the leader involve and listen to each team member's opinions, and change their own opinions if needed? Will the leader share their thought process afterwards?

Or shall we aim for consensus? Done right, consensus can result in a high-quality decision. You share information within the team, everyone hears what everyone else has to say and can ask questions to each other. Team members also share responsibility (if not, is it true consensus).

However, consensus takes time. It's slow. At least for a new team. It can easily break down without the right team dynamics and guidelines. Does it feel a bit "leaderless"? 

And is it not a short distance from consensus to compromise where three good ideas are turned into one bad one to please everybody.

What about the consensus trap where everyone seems to be in agreement but in reality the majority disagrees without speaking up. What do you do if not everyone agrees with you at the end? Some companies swear to "disagree and commit".

Gerald Weinberg said that the trick is not to know the best method, but the best method under the present circumstances. The most effective leaders are the ones who help the team to recognize when circumstances change and to find a new decision making method that fits.

How do you make decisions in diverse groups and teams? Which forms do you use under which circumstances?

The product operating model

Many have witnessed failed transformations, but few have witnessed true successes. 

Moving to the product operating model is a transformation. At the end, it's about consistently creating technology-powered solutions that your customers love, yet work for your business. It's about delivering real results. But what do you change exactly?

You change how you build. Products are managed as an ongoing effort - improving every week until it's decided to sunset it. You do frequent, small releases so you know that it's working and how it's being used.

You change how you solve problems. Empowered product teams are given problems to solve and outcomes to achieve instead of a list of prioritized features, projects and perceived solutions decided by various stakeholders.

You change how you decide which problems to solve. A strong product company has a compelling product vision and insight-based product strategy identifying the most critical problems that need to be solved to deliver on the business objectives. Your strategy cannot be to serve as many business stakeholders as possible.

Pushing the decisions and responsibilities for finding the best solution to the problem down to the relevant product team, and then holding that team accountable for the results also drives the need for new product core competencies (that normally takes years to learn). 

Unless you are willing to establish these new competencies, your transformation hopes will likely end here.

For the product team together with the product manager to discover and deliver effective solutions, it is absolutely critical that they have direct access to:

  1. Users and customers,
  2. Product data, 
  3. Business stakeholders and
  4. Engineers (the tech lead as a minimum).

Fight any attempt to place a well-meaning person or cumbersome process between the product manager and these constituencies.

An honest and accurate assessment of the organization’s current situation is essential to any plan to successfully transform. Be realistic, talk to all levels and look for evidence. 

Start with pilot teams volunteering to be on the leading edge of these changes. Develop the skills of the product teams (bottom up) and the skills of the product leaders (top down). Ensure your CEO supports and is a champion of the change.

Transformation is a long game, and for that reasons it helps to have some quick wins. It could simply be a team that has never visited users starts doing do and shares it experiences and insights. 

Constantly beat the drum, evangelize and show everyone the progress being made.

"Transformed - Moving to the product operating model" by Marty Cagan.

Discover the right products

How do you know that you are making a product or service that your customers want?

It’s not only about delivering things right, but also about discovering the right things to deliver. You can't have one without the other.

Discovery is continuous. At a minimum, weekly touchpoints with customers by the team building the product where they conduct small research activities in pursuit of a desired outcome.

Customers don't always know what they want, and what customers ask for isn't always what they need. Don't ask them what you should build. 

Ask them to share specific stories about their experiences. Avoid direct and factual questions because we struggle to answer them accurately.

The purpose is to discover and explore opportunities, i.e., what needs, pain points and desires matter most to this customer? 

The Opportunity Solution Tree (OST) is a framework for continuous discovery and a simple way to visually represent the paths we may take to reach a desired business outcome.

The opportunity space represent customer needs, pain points and desires that, if addressed, will the drive business outcome. 

The solution space represent solutions addressing the opportunities, and rather than testing solutions we test assumptions that need to be true for our solution to succeed.

A visualization and a tree structure helps building a shared understanding, it helps you break large opportunities into a series of smaller ones, you avoid "whether or not" decisions, it makes it easier to summarize your work to stakeholders, and it makes it easier to prioritize.

Product strategies happens in the opportunity space. Prioritize opportunities, and not solutions.

To test assumptions you need to generate assumptions. You can imagine that the solution already exists and then map out each step users must take to get value from it. This forces you to be specific and it forces you to make desirability, viability, feasibility and usability assumptions.

You can't test every assumption. You need to prioritize and to prioritize you need to identify the riskiest ones. How much do we know about this assumption, and how important is this assumption to the success of the solution?

When testing an assumption, be specific with your evaluation criteria upfront. 

The team must align around what success looks like. Don't throw spaghetti at the wall, hoping something stick. Remember, you are not trying to prove that the assumption is true. You are simply trying to mitigate risk, and stop when you have mitigated enough.

"Continuous Discovery Habits" by Teresa Torres


How do you decide?

We make thousands of decisions every day – some big, some small. 

What we do have some control over, what we can improve, is the quality of our decisions.

Any decision is, in essence, a prediction about the future. Making a decision is making a guess about how things might turn out.

Your decisions will only be as good as your ability to anticipate how they might turn out. 

You can rarely guarantee a good outcome (or a bad one). The goal is to try to choose the option that will lead to the most favorable range of outcomes.

Good outcomes can result from both good and bad decisions, and bad outcomes can result from both good and bad decisions.

  • Step 1, for each option under consideration, identify the reasonable set of possible outcomes.
  • Step 2, identify your preferences using the payoff for each outcome – to what degree do you like or dislike each outcome, given your goals and values? If an outcome moves you toward a goal, the payoff is positive. If an outcome moves you away from a goal, the payoff is negative.
  • Step 3, estimate the likelihood of each outcome unfolding. You know enough to make an educated guess. All your knowledge, imperfect as it might be, means that your guess isn't random. The willingness to guess is essential to improving decisions.
  • Step 4, assess the relative likelihood of outcomes you like and dislike for the options under consideration. With the possible outcomes, payoffs and probabilities, you can now see how the upside compares to the downside, whether the possible gains compensates for the downside.

These four steps force you to assess what you know, and seek out what you don't.

Increasing accuracy costs time. Saving time costs accuracy.

The challenge for any decision-maker is that you want to accomplish two things at once: You don't want to waste too much time and you don't want to sacrifice too much accuracy. The key to balancing the trade-off between time and accuracy is figuring out the penalty for not getting the decision exactly right.

If your goal is to get certainty about your choice, you will be stuck in analysis paralysis and never be finished. Pretty much every decision is made with incomplete information.

One of the best tools for improving your decision-making is to get other people's perspectives.

When asking for input or advice, don't offer your opinion first. When you tell someone what you think before hearing what they think, you can cause their opinion to bend toward yours, oftentimes without them knowing it. Provide what the person needs to know to give worthwhile feedback – and nothing more.

The goal of good decision-making can't be that every single decision will work out well. That's an impossible goal. Embracing that fact is necessary for becoming a better decision-maker. 

Your goal is, across the portfolio of all the decisions that you make in your life, to advance toward your goals rather than retreat away from them.

"How to decide" by Annie Duke